Her Unfinished Life
This is My Journey
Wednesday, December 28, 2011
Worse Dr. Visit Ever
Wednesday, August 24, 2011
Social Media During Chronic Times
Over the past two years of my illness I have become quite dependent on social media to keep me connected to the outside world. One good example of the usefulness of using social media to stay informed came yesterday after the East coast experienced an earthquake. At the time, I was at the grocery store just checking out at the register. Suddenly, two registers over, two ladies asked what that rumbling was. Where I was standing, neither I nor the lady at my register felt anything. The other ladies concluded that it must have been an earthquake. When I got to my truck I received a text message from my husband, who was working in Philadelphia that day, asking me if I felt the earthquake. I tried texting back but my texts were going through randomly so to him they made no sense, cell service was then interrupted. When I arrived home my neighbor was standing on the porch, looking rather shook up, and he too asked whether I felt the quake. I hadn't, darn, I missed it somehow! My first reaction upon entering the house was to grab my iPad and check my Twitter feed. Yes, indeed it was an earthquake! I can always depend on finding out about news events a lot faster via Twitter than to turn on the television. The tweets were coming in at a rapid pace offering links to news reports, personal experiences and plenty of LOL tweets as to what it "might" have been.
Over the past few years of my using social media, whether it be Twitter, Facebook, Foursquare, Blogger and more recently Pinterest and a few others I can't think of right now, it has helped me tremendously during the worst of my chronic pain flare times. I started playing around on Blogger in 2007 with my blog JuStDeEz'ArT & LiFeas an outlet to show some of my artwork and share what was going on in my life through blog posts and pictures. One blog led to a second The Barefoot Cook. From there I joined Twitter. It was when Twitter was new and not a lot of people were sure about using it. I searched for local people who were using it and "followed" many of them, mostly just lurking and reading their tweets. I later started interacting in conversations and throwing a lot of my own 140 characters or less out into the Twitter world. Before I knew it I had quite a large following...this part always baffled me, I guess in part because I felt I complained too much about my living with chronic pain and my self confidence was at an all time low. To me though it was my only means of being able to "socialize". At the time we lived in the country which was lonely and isolating. My husband was working out of town a lot so I was there alone with our daughter. It wasn't that I couldn't go anywhere but rather during my painful flares I wasn't able to leave the house much. I felt connected. Since our move to Lititz a year and a half ago I've come out of feeling depressed, isolated and lonely. I've had occasions to meet and socialize in person with quite a few people from Twitter. I've developed a support circle on Twitter and Facebook with others who are going through the chronic illnesses just like myself. I now have three active blogs, belong to several online groups from support to art and I can be "social" from the comfort of my Lay-Z-Boy reclining sofa, all while suffering the worse flares I had in the history of my chronic illness.
- Posted using BlogPress from my iPad
Over the past few years of my using social media, whether it be Twitter, Facebook, Foursquare, Blogger and more recently Pinterest and a few others I can't think of right now, it has helped me tremendously during the worst of my chronic pain flare times. I started playing around on Blogger in 2007 with my blog JuStDeEz'ArT & LiFeas an outlet to show some of my artwork and share what was going on in my life through blog posts and pictures. One blog led to a second The Barefoot Cook. From there I joined Twitter. It was when Twitter was new and not a lot of people were sure about using it. I searched for local people who were using it and "followed" many of them, mostly just lurking and reading their tweets. I later started interacting in conversations and throwing a lot of my own 140 characters or less out into the Twitter world. Before I knew it I had quite a large following...this part always baffled me, I guess in part because I felt I complained too much about my living with chronic pain and my self confidence was at an all time low. To me though it was my only means of being able to "socialize". At the time we lived in the country which was lonely and isolating. My husband was working out of town a lot so I was there alone with our daughter. It wasn't that I couldn't go anywhere but rather during my painful flares I wasn't able to leave the house much. I felt connected. Since our move to Lititz a year and a half ago I've come out of feeling depressed, isolated and lonely. I've had occasions to meet and socialize in person with quite a few people from Twitter. I've developed a support circle on Twitter and Facebook with others who are going through the chronic illnesses just like myself. I now have three active blogs, belong to several online groups from support to art and I can be "social" from the comfort of my Lay-Z-Boy reclining sofa, all while suffering the worse flares I had in the history of my chronic illness.
- Posted using BlogPress from my iPad
Tuesday, July 19, 2011
Invisible Illness Week Coming Soon!
National Invisible Chronic Illness Awareness Week is held annually in September and is a worldwide effort to bring together people who live with invisible chronic illness and those who love them.
It is a time to bring awareness to the nearly 1 in 2 people who live with a chronic illness, about 96% of which is invisible. I'll be participating in some way so stop back often or follow this blog for updates!
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Friday, June 10, 2011
Friday, February 11, 2011
Fighting the battles
I want to first say that this is a very emotional post but I think it's honest and necessary for me let out.
Some days I want to fight like hell to combat these disorders. Then there are days when it seems to much to bear and I wish God would just let me go, take me. I almost died five and a half years ago giving birth to my precious daughter Madison. At first I was panicked knowing I was going to die, desperate to live, begging for them to do something, anything. One of the young nurses prayed with me lying there waiting for the doctor to figure something out. They'd already tried everything they knew to do and nothing was working. I'd already lost all of the blood in my body which they'd replaced and then some, 9 pints. Finally the doctor asked me for my permission to try one last option, a hysterectomy. It was a risk, even more dangerous as it would cause more bleeding. He told me that I was already dying and that I may not survive the operation. Even knowing that I said okay, I was done fighting. As they were wheeling me into the ER I suddenly felt calm, peaceful, unafraid. It was a peace that is extremely hard to describe. I was surrounded by a bright light, everything was white. It wasn't a blinding light like the kind that hurts your eyes, more like everything around me was just no longer there, it was beautiful. It was then that I heard a voice. It wasn't an audible voice like someone actually talking to me. I didn't hear it with my ears, I just heard it. I heard the simple words "it's not time". Then nothing. When I do remember opening my eyes I was in a regular hospital bed next to a glass wall. The first thing I asked was "what day is it?". My husband, who was sitting beside my bed told me it was Tuesday, 3 days had passed. I was alive.
I no longer have a fear of dying. What I'm afraid of the most is the impact on those I'll leave behind. My family, my friends. I don't want them to hurt, to experience the pain of my passing. I know I may not die anytime soon but there are days when the physical pain and suffering is so severe that I wish I would. I just want relief. I don't want to suffer. But yet... I'm not done. I don't feel that I've yet accomplished what I was let live for, even if I don't know what that reason was. So for now I will keep fighting until the day when that voice finally tells me "it's time".
Thursday, February 10, 2011
Trapped
My physical pain is becoming more excruciating every day. My skin hurts, I can't stand my clothes touching me, the blankets on me at night. I can't take a shower even with the lightest spray, anyone touching me, especially to rub my arm or back.
Eating is becoming more difficult. Most foods hurt going down then cause stomach and abdominal cramping. I'm losing weight I'm sure. Even soft foods, they go down but the cramping starts. Nothing tastes really good anymore but I'm so hungry. I eat even knowing how much I'll suffer but it doesn't seem to be enough. Constipation is a major problem. Taking all of the vitamins and minerals is making my esophagus very tender and sore. I'm pretty sure this is all due to the sjogrens and IBS.
My muscles cramp. I'm pretty sure a tendon in my ankle has torn after a severe cramp one night, too much walking aggravates it. The back muscle cramping makes me feel like I'm having chest pains, it radiates.
My bones hurt. Everywhere.
My joints are sore and very tender to the touch and more with use.
I'm not sleeping well, waking up almost every hour during the night. I can't always fall asleep during the day for more than an hour. I'm so tired.
I'm emotional. Sad, scared, confused, forgetful, angry, numb, lost.
Trapped....in a body that's broken, worn out, attacking itself. No one should ever have to suffer this way. No one.
Friday, January 28, 2011
Pain, pain go away....
Today has been a total blur of pain. From the time I woke up I was barely able to move. My joints were all swollen and very tender to the touch. The center of my back felt like a spike had been driven through it sometime during the night. I'm thankful that Jon was off work to help with getting Maddie off to school. Just brushing her hair was painful and exhausting. I wanted so badly to paint today but was only able to apply a coat of gesso to my painting. I sat most of the morning with the heating pad on and off on my back. When I finally felt able to attempt something constructive, I made a batch of Rice Krispie Treats. That alone exhausted me to have to take a nap. I slept about an hour and a half, waking up feeling worse and hurting even more. Later, after making dinner and cleaning up, I was clearly done for the day. Time to sit, again. Sitting down and staying down is the hardest thing in the world for me. I've always been active and knowing that I can't hurts more than the pain itself. Pain, pain go away ....forever.
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